7 irratoinal thoughts that keep us from moving forward

i was sitting in english class one day and the topic of exploitation arose among the class. we then began to discuss how we are exploited in life and in the work environment. instantly my mind wondered off into its own little fairytale world and i thought if we are constantly being accused of something then what else is holding us back from being the best we can actually be in life. i came up with 7 reasons why people aren't as successful as they can be:

1. If someone crticizes me, there must be something wrong with me:
this idea that we are perfect and we don't need anyone else's help needs to go out of heads adn flushed down a toilet. just because someone crticizes you doesn't mean that there is something wrong with you. it is actually a fantastic thing tio have differing opinions on something, it shows that you are different. imagine living in a world where we all thought the smae thing. it wouldn't be fun.

2. I always have to ahve other peoples aproval
you kight this one in younger age kids enetering highschool or currently in high school. approval is a drug and can run your life if you dont stop trying to please people. trying different thiungs that you like and experiencing new things is a part of growing and learning. you dont have to be good at them.

3. It's not my fault my life didn't go the way i wanted
i have bead news for you....this is your fault. if you think this way then yes it is your fault because you have it in your mind that your life is terrible. you can make your life whatever you want it to be. your thoughts control your actions and actions then become habits.

4. i wont try anything new unless i will be good at it
Many people suffer from the fact that they are afraid to fail or that things will get to hard. like i said in the last one trying different things is an experience in life and allows your body to grow and it teaches you different things.

5. I am inferior to everyone else
this is just the way you feel. you have talents and abilities that set you apart form anyone else in life. you can choose to be anything you want to be in life.you have to work on builiding up your self confidence and realizing what you are good at.

6. I was rejected therefore sopmething is wrong with me
rejection is normal in life. everyone goes through it. you are just as worthy as the bnext person who reads this.

7. If i feel happy about something, then something will go wrong
if you can make yourself happy and stay happy, then i pat you on the back. you deserve all the ahppiniess in the world. your past is your past so forget about it. do not mix today with bad memories fromt he past. wake up every morning thinking this is going to be grand day.