No matter where in life, you will have to deal with those who strive on drama, love to start it or keep it going. This is a simple fact of life. Thousands upon thousands of human beings of both genders love to create issues where none need be and are unnecessary if not destructive.In order to be fair I would even say that all of us at one point or the other in our life have been guilty of this. As we mature however and grow in our vanilla life we by necessity need to become aware of those tendencies in ourselves and others, and work hard to avoid this. i sat down and thought about all the possible ways to avoid these issues if you are attacked or confronted. this is what i came up with:
1.Listen politely and with an open mind to see if it is really worth arguing about
2. Walk away if you get irritated
3.Grow a tough skin and not worry about it
4. kindness always works. the more someone keeps attacking you, keep being nice. it will drive them insane.
we have all been in a situation in which we feel that we cannot control but we have just as much control as the other person with our words and our actions.
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